Q: I have been trying to get my wife to squirt. Have not been successful. Have tried different positions. Any ideas?
A: First I would like to say that not all women can ejaculate. Female ejaculation is controversial at best and is often debated by Sexologists. However, so far, there is no research indicating that all women ejaculate. Here is a fascinating study done with couples having intercourse while inside an MRI machine. The MRI images “did not show a G-spot, or a separate reservoir of fluid indicating female ejaculation”.
Some doctors we work with say some women don’t ejaculate because their Skene’s glands are not as developed as women who can ejaculate. This is one theory. Saying that this is something all women should be experiencing may cause harm for those who never experience anything like this and feel there is something “wrong” with them.
Our suggestion would be to focus on erogenous zones that make you both feel good rather than focusing on an area that leaves you both with frustration. Hope this helps!
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