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Sex Toy Treasure Chest – January 2013

20 Jan 2013
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7 Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager

 
This month, as CalExotics Sexperts, we were sent another great product to review. Just a reminder, each product is rated, by our testers (2 couples), using The Love Bird’s Feathers Rating Scale™:
 
1 = “Not so hot” to

5 = “VERY, VERY HOT!”
 
“The hotter the product is, the more feathers it will take to cool you off!”
 
The new product we received is called the 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager.  It’s the essence of pure luxury.  The 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager provides an ergonomically shaped personal massager with powerful vibrations that resonate throughout!
 
The 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager has a satin finish controller.  It has 7 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation.  It comes with easy push button controller with LED light and auto on/off button.  It has distinct, elegant, premium quality Silicone pleasure tips.  It’s waterproof and made of luxurious body safe silicone.
 
The 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager comes in 3 colors (blue, pink, and black like shown here).  It’s powered by 2 AAA batteries which are not included.  Always use water based lubricant with the 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager.  Cleans easily with soap and water or a toy cleaner.
 
The manufacturer’s suggested retail price is $39.99.  You can get yours now for $30.64 by simply visiting our online adult store,http://www.enchantedtreasures.biz/Luxe-Euphoria-Silicone-Black-7-Function/sku-SE214431?a=Love-Birds-toys.
 
So, how did our testers rate the 7-Function Silicone Luxe Euphoria Massager? Watch the video below to find out!
 

 
***This item was provided free of charge as part of the CalExotics Sexpert program. This is in compliance with FTC guidelines.

 

Sex Toy Treasure Chest – December 2012

28 Dec 2012
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Lia ® Magic Rings

 
This month, as CalExotics Sexperts, we were sent another great product to review. Just a reminder, each product is rated, by our testers (2 couples), using The Love Bird’s Feathers Rating Scale™:
 
1= “Not so hot” to

5= “VERY, VERY HOT!”
 
“The hotter the product is, the more feathers it will take to cool you off!”
 
The new product we received is Lia® Magic Ring. It’s a new penis ring, or cock ring, that vibrates.  For those of you that don’t know, a penis ring is often used to make an erect penis harder, to maintain an erection and to delay orgasm. Penis rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis.  Lia® Magic Ring provides support for him and pleasure for his partner!
 
The Lia® Magic Ring comes with a removable vibrator and 2 vibe positions which allows you to customize the pleasure.  It has 10 functions of intense vibration, pulsation and escalation.  It comes with easy push button controller, meaning you simply push the button to move through the different functions.  You just hold it for 3 seconds to shut it off.  The Lia® Magic Ring stretches to fit (most males, even the well endowed) and flexes and moves with you. It’s waterproof and phthalate free and made of hygienically superior silicone.
 
The Lia® Magic Ring comes in 3 colors (purple, pink, and blue like shown here).  It’s powered by 3 watch batteries.  CalExotics includes two sets of batteries to get you started.  Use water based lubricant with this penis ring.  Lube can be used to make putting penis rings on and off a little easier.  Cleans easily with soap and water or a toy cleaner.
 
Now, here’s a little PSA for your regarding safety when using any penis ring.  It’s important for men to take off a penis ring at the first sign of pain or discomfort.  In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a penis ring on for too long.  Why?  An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection. Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible.  In fact, it states on the box to use the Lia® Magic Ring for no more than 30 minutes at a time. Thus, DO NOT fall asleep or be under the influence of alcohol or drugs when using any penis ring.
 
The manufacturer’s suggested retail price is $24.99.  So, how did our testers rate the Lia® Magic Ring? Watch the video below to find out:
 

 
***This item was provided free of charge as part of the Cal Exotics Sexpert program. This is in compliance with FTC guidelines.

 

 

 

 

 

The Daily Goals Compass™

28 Nov 2012
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compass

 
The Daily Goals Compass™ is a tool we created to help you achieve your daily goals.  It can help you with your personal goals, work goals, and even your interpersonal and relationship goals.
 
Now, the Daily Goals Compass™ is used in the same way you would use a navigational compass if you were lost in the woods, for example. What is the first thing you would need to do?   The first thing to do is plot your course (your daily goal). Where do you want to go: North, South, East or West?
 
1. What are my daily goals? How do I want to feel or what do I want to do today?
 

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After you determined which direction you want to go, you would next need to rotate the compass and make sure the compass heading arrow is pointing to your goal direction. In your Daily Goals Compass™, your thoughts are your heading arrow.  You need to make sure your thoughts are leading you to your goals.
 
2. What rational/positive thoughts will help me achieve my daily goals? (List all the thoughts)
 

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Now that your thoughts (heading arrow) are leading you toward your goals, what will you do? If you were in the woods and you wanted to go North, just having the heading arrow pointing North wouldn’t get you there magically.  You would have to do something like begin to walk North in order to get there.  You could decide to make other choices like just sitting there, sleeping and wishing to go North, etc.  However, these choices won’t help you achieve your goal of going North.
 
3. What will I do in order to achieve my daily goals?
 

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So, here’s a real life example:
 
If I am feeling anxious and I want to feel relaxed instead, then I will rehearse the positive thoughts I listed in question # 2 throughout the day, listen to relaxing music, exercise, and do relaxation/breathing techniques. 
 
Remember, it is very important that you keep your thoughts, behaviors and your goals lined up to make sure you are heading in the right direction!

Sex Toy Treasure Chest – November 2012

26 Nov 2012
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This month, as Cal Exotics Sexperts, we were sent another great product to review. Just a reminder, each product is rated, by our testers (2 couples), using The Love Bird’s Feathers Rating Scale™:
 
1= “Not so hot” to

5= “VERY, VERY HOT!”

“The hotter the product is, the more feathers it will take to cool you off!”
 
The new product we received is Posh ® 10-Function Teaser 1 – Pink. This new massager is “powerful and whisper quiet” according to CalExotics’ website. It has 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation.
 
It comes with easy push button controller with LED meaning the button lights up as you push the button to move through the different functions. You just hold it for 3 seconds to shut it off. The Posh ® is 5½ inches long (insertable length) and has a silky smooth satin finish which makes it very soft and velvety to the touch. It is waterproof, phthalate free, body free (completely hypoallergenic) and made of pure, luxurious silicone.
 
The Posh ® comes in 4 pleasing designs for versatile use and 4 colors (blue, orange, purple and pink). It requires 2 AAA batteries which are not included. Use water based lubricant with this vibe. Cleans easily with soap and water or a toy cleaner.
 
The manufacturer’s suggested retail price is $36.99. We’ve seen it online for $30.89 to $35.10.
 
So, how did our testers rate the Posh ® 10-Function Teaser 1 – Pink?  Watch the video below to find out!
 
You can get yours now for $26.33 by simply visiting our online adult store, EnchantedTreasures.biz!
 

Beginning Key to a Happy Marriage? Confidence!

09 Nov 2012
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Confidence throughout a relationship is always good, however it appears be more important than ever in the beginning of a relationship.  A new study suggested couples who are more confident and had less doubts in the beginning of their relationship stayed together longer.  In fact, these confident couples were even more happy staying together years after matrimony.
 
“These couples were spending time together, dining out, taking part in activities together, sharing meaningful conversation and physical expressions of affection. Those who are more confident in getting married are willing to invest in their relationships,” said Matthew Johnson, assistant professor in the U of A Department of Human Ecology.  The study also discussed the importance of not ignoring the doubts of your relationship.  Instead , discuss the concerns together or seek out a relationship counselor to help.
 
Just a piece of advice, please do not wait to address the relationship concerns.  According to Dr. John Gottman, The Gottman Relationship Institute, couples on average wait 6 years before seeking help for their relationship concerns/problems.  That’s like having cancer and waiting 6 years before seeking treatment.  Nip these issues and concerns in the bud early!  If you have concerns and need relationship help, please feel free to contact us!
 
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University of Alberta (2012, November 2). Confident beginning key to happy marriage: Don’t ignore doubts, experts warn. ScienceDaily. Retrieved November 9, 2012, from http://www.sciencedaily.com­/releases/2012/11/121102115348.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+sciencedaily%2Fmind_brain%2Frelationships+%28ScienceDaily%3A+Mind+%26+Brain+News+–+Relationships%29

 

 

 

College Students: Having More Hookup Sex or Romantic Sex?

09 Nov 2012
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There’s a lot of talk about college students having lots of hookup sex around campus. What’s hookup sex? Well, it’s any sexual behavior between partners who are not committed to each other or in a relationship together.
 
However, a new study by researchers with The Miriam Hospital’s Centers for Behavioral and Preventive Medicine shows that college students are not having hookup sex as often as once thought. In fact, it shows that romantic sex with a partner is twice a common as hookup sex for first year college women. We just hope they are using safer sex practices and that the sex is consensual.
 
So, if you’re a current or past college student, we want to know what you think. Does this study fit with your college experience?
 
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The Miriam Hospital (2012, November 8). Are ‘hookups’ replacing romantic relationships on college campuses?. ScienceDaily. Retrieved November 9, 2012, from http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/11/121108131730.htm?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+sciencedaily%2Fmind_brain%2Frelationships+%28ScienceDaily%3A+Mind+%26+Brain+News+–+Relationships%29